Dear prospective Bride & Groom,

Thank you for considering me to be your wedding photographer. Your search has brought you to my little corner of the web and no doubt you are overwhelmed by the sheer number of winnipeg wedding photographers to choose from. I sympathize with you so I am going to help you out by dedicating a short introduction to who I am and what I do right here, the front page of the portal to my wedding photography portfolio.

I know there is a little bit to read here... but bear with me. My wedding photography portfolio is above if you want to skip these words... but this little bit of time reading will decide for you if you want to book me or not because trust me, my photography is amazing once you see it.

But first, a few caveats.

Due to the number of wedding photographers available for you to choose from, I am now restricting the number of clients I see. If you want to meet with me for a consultation, you must have a referral from a couple I have already photographed or meet the following criteria:

 

a) you have thoroughly and completely reviewed my online portfolio and absolutely LOVE my work

OR

b) you have already met and consulted with at least TWO of my competitors (find them here), don't want to book them and are still looking

AND

c) you have decided that you want to book me, are meeting with me to confirm your decision, and will have a retainer fee on hand to secure your date
(you are of course free to change your mind :-)

 

Normally, I would never dream of putting such restrictions on a couple to meeting with me. But, the sheer number of competitors compels me to do so. It is simply a matter of respecting my time and what I feel I am now worth.

Choosing a wedding photographer is as much about personality as it is about photography. I am going to help you decide if my personality is the one you want for your wedding day because my photography will speak for itself.

I am fun, articulate, sharp and observant with an easy going manner and a 100% relaxed demeanor at all times. My smile is permanently plastered on my face. But, that does not mean I am a push-over or one of these poly-anna types or someone who will put on this super-fun-happy “professional” facade for your wedding day. I am a happy guy and I don’t need to fake it. Sadly, many people today want the fake happy so if this is you, we probably won’t get along very well. (If it is not, you know EXACTLY what I am talking about. LOL :-) You will even see this in my portfolio... everybody is smiling. There is not a single “pouty” or “serious” fashion/cool “look” in any of my brides or grooms. Just smiles... forever and ever. If this is what you want for your wedding photography... keep reading.

Why am I so happy? Because I have strong convictions about life and know who I am and what I stand for. Being happy is that simple. The energy of a happy and confident man will be something I bring to your wedding day. Some couples are comfortable around such a man, others are not. If misery loves company, you will find me quickly looking for the exit door of that group. After photographing 50 weddings, I have discovered my couples are strong, confident, happy and “get me” and what I do. Since I am not here to win a Facebook popularity contest but to take great photos, I don’t worry about whether or not I jive with or can win over every couple I meet. I want to work with couples that want to work with me. There are a lot of personalities to choose from and I am confident that in meeting with me, you will want to work with me.

There really is only one question you need to ask yourself if you want to book me as your wedding photographer.

 

Are you looking for steak... or sizzle?

 

Quality... or quantity?

 

The real deal... or the flashy deal?

 

I got no sizzle to sell you... just a lot of prime, triple-grade-A wedding photography.

I am not the flashy or “artsy” photographer who is the talk of the town. I am the photographer who believes his work will speak for itself and that I don’t have to sell it. I therefore offer no credits, discounts, promotions or other gimmicky sales tricks because quality photography does not need to. Instead, you will find straight forward pricing where if you can add 1+1 and get 2, you will be able to figure out how much I will cost and whether I fit into your wedding photography budget. It’s a take-it-or-leave it approach because with the number of other winnipeg wedding photographers to choose from today, I am not going to waste your time or mine trying to “sell” you. You will either love my photography and me or you wont and since I have no ego in this game, whether you do or not is of no importance to me. (Another tip for being happy in case you are taking notes at this point! LOL :-) Some might find this approach to be arrogant and foolish (the misery group meets once a week in room 4A down the hall)- I prefer to call it confident and honest. Every couple who books me believes the latter so I don’t worry about the former. There will always be haters out there and I am immune to their toxic way of life. I’m a lover not a hater and all of my couples are as well.

Question: “Are you a full-time professional photographer? Do you have another job or is this all you do?”

Good question. If you are looking for a “full-time” professional photographer with bricks-&-mortar studio space to dazzle you with, photos plastering the walls and a pirate’s treasure chest of album samples and other sparkly items to amaze you... I am not the photographer for you. Remember... you are getting steak with me, not sizzle. I am a professional. I have seven years and 50 weddings of experience. My gear is professional grade and my demeanor and approach is professional... but we will be meeting in a coffee shop. LOL If that scares you, it would be best to go with another photographer. Considering the state of the economy today, those wedding photographers with high overheads and huge marketing budgets are going to be the ones in trouble, not me. As for whether or not I have another job... yes and no. If I need one, I will be working one. If not... then this is all I do. Simple enough answer? :-)

Question: “What is your wedding photography price and what do your wedding photography packages include?”

Another good question. I’m not cheap. I am also not expensive... or at least not to those couples that want me to be a full-time wedding photographer (some day) and to actually make a profit I can live on.

I am not going to try to win this game by racing to the bottom with my pricing. But, I am not so foolish as to price myself out of the market. My wedding photography pricing is in the professional range... $2000 to $6000 with all the extra toppings. I wish I could offer my services for less, but I can’t. I am good and I would be doing a disservice to my friends in this industry by continuing to charge entry level or beginning rates when I am anything but. If I take work away from another photographer, they are never going to be able to accuse me of undercutting them. With my current pricing, I can book 10 weddings and be “full-time”, but don’t be surprised or scared if I tell you I have less than 10 weddings booked. With the level of competition out there, that is just the nature of this business today and I will not disguise it with some fake veneer of being “busy”, “successful” or “booked solid.” I would rather be honest with you than “fake-it-till-I-make-it.” In fact, I don’t think I could fake it even if I tried because I am not even remotely close to being a fake person.

Here is how you should look at the cost of wedding photography.

I know how much you can spend on a dress, cake, shoes, flowers, reception, etc etc etc... but we are talking about things that will, at most, last 12 hrs. After that... the ONLY record of all that happened on your wedding day will be the photographs your photographer has taken.

I photograph people. I get the “details” as they say and you can see plenty of them in my portfolio, but they are the last thing on my mind as I find people far more interesting to photograph. That’s because people are where the emotion is... where the relationships and connections are found. My couples are not interested in a wedding album filled with pictures of “stuff.” They want lots of photos of themselves, their friends and family and the story of their wedding day. I never miss a single laugh or tear. My couples are not focused on the details of their lives but on the relationship and emotions they have for one another. The path, not the destination, if I can use a philosophical metaphor.

So... if you want to budget a lot of money for “stuff”... go right ahead, but that will mean cutting back on your wedding photographer budget. But... if you are frugal and do some work yourself, a lot of “stuff” can be had for a good price (or simply less of it) AND you can afford a professional photographer who will document your wedding story and all the emotion it will entail for decades to come as it should be documented... for posterity.

Which brings us to longevity. Bringing up the specter of divorce would, by many others in this industry, be considered not only unprofessional, but a disaster business move. That just brings me back to that life convictions thing I wrote about earlier. I am here to photograph ONE wedding... and ONE wedding only. I am not here to do a good job and then get “two more” weddings when the couples splits and remarries. Yes, that is the inside industry joke and I don’t find it funny at all, not one bit. My parents have been married for 40+ years. You know what else? My couples, 8 out of 10 of them, have parents together on BOTH sides. Do you know how RARE that is? I believe in love and LONG TERM marriage, not this feminist, Sex In The City dystopia of “modern” relationships and disposable marriages.

I don’t know your family or personal history... and I am certainly not here to question your current relationship and its strength... but make no mistake... I do NOT want to see you divorced... ever. With religious moral values almost non-existent and grandma and grandpa with 60+ years of marriage gone and unavailable to young people today for council and advice on what makes LONG TERM COMMITMENT AND PARTNERING with another person actually work... this right here, this little paragraph, may be the only voice of sober second thought you will ever hear as you make the single most important decision of your life... to join in union with another human being for life. Like I said, I am a happy guy and it is because I am not afraid to ask tough questions or be the bearer of inconvenient truths. I do so because I actually give a damn. I have never openly talked about this except with a few of my couples, but this is the mindset and attitude I bring to your wedding day so you should want this in your wedding photographer. Every other photographer will say the same as I do, but very few of them will be as open and honest as I am about your chances in marriage today. It is NOT the 1950s anymore which, ironically enough, was the last generation of men and women who believed in 50+ years of marriage and family and was a pretty happy generation compared to today if you ask me. If that does not offend you, you are probably looking for your cheque book because you are booking me now no matter what. LOL You get it... most 21st century, hipster, “liberal”, “modern” and “progressive’s” don’t. If that makes me a throwback to to an era that is extinct... all I have to say to that is this... if having strong convictions about stable marriages making for happy families resulting in a moral and ethical society makes me a throwback... so be it. I am not buying this modern, mass marketed, 21st century world of hypocritical happiness... I want the real deal and so should you.

So there ya go. That should be enough for you to know who I am and what I am about. If you are still reading this and still considering me to be your wedding photographer... please continue on into my portfolio and be amazed at the photography you find there.

I wish you all the best in your future life together. Much fun and laughter to be had... if you already have it that is. Contrary to popular belief, a relationship is not work. (Say whaaaaatttttttt? Did he just say that relationships are not work?) You know they say in work, you should do what you love because it does not feel like work? The best relationships are the same. If the relationship feels like work, if there are always “problems” or “issues” to be addressed... maybe its because the relationship is not working in the first place? Radical thinking... I know... but maybe you out to consider it. That is not to say you won’t encounter problems or rough patches in your relationship, you will. Ohhhhh boy will you encounter tough times, “war” as my Dad once called it and then immediately followed it with his head thrown back laughing out loud. What it means is neither of you will see these natural relationship problems and issues as “work”, it will just be life with another person who is different than you. That is a whole world of difference in attitude and approach to love and relationships from the “work on it” crowd.

Oh... one final note.

If you are wondering just what is an artistic wedding photographer... I can tell you, it ain’t running your photos through Photoshop Lightroom presents (that EVERY other photographer has and therefore EVERYONE'S photos all look the same) and calling it “artistic.” All artists... have a personal philosophy toward life that is expressed in their work. If you have read this far and go into my portfolio, you will begin to see this is true of my work. My work reflects all my beliefs about love and relationships you have just read about. Also, artists by nature are not the types to go with the crowd or be popular with the masses. If you are popular... if you are wanted and available to everyone (price is not the issue)... then you are not an artist. An artist stands for something more than just his artistic works. That more is usually principles, values or a philosophy of some kind. As you read at the beginning... I am not meeting with just anyone and since I have no fear of turning away people, you are not guaranteed to book me just because you have a cheque in your hand and wish to. I might not want to work with you and THAT... that is the mark of an artist.

A true artist... is available to only a select few of his choosing.

A true artist... can never be bought.

A true artist... never compromises.

A true artist... never conforms to the expectations of others.

If you want an artist for a wedding photographer... you have found him.

Avoir une belle vie mes amis.